Take a minute to remember.

As I reflect upon the successes, miseries and past loves of my life, I chanced upon something of many years ago that reminded me of who I was, who I am now and how I got here. It comforted my awkward soul and re-taught me the very essence of life. Sometimes in life, all we need is to take a minute to remember.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they are meant to be there. They serve some sort of purpose, to teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are and who you want to become. You never know who these people may be; your roommate, neighbour, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger, who, when you lock eyes with, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you and at that time, they may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection, you realize that without overcoming those obstacles, you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests if they be events, illness or relationships, life would be a smoothly paved or straight flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affected your life and the successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks you heart, forgive them, for they have helped you to learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go. You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it.

Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that there were the things that helped you grow.

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything you possibly can, for you may never experience it again. Talk to people whom you have never talked to before and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either. You can make your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

Back to old days.

Meet up with iggy, jer and darren for dinner. Back to old days which we always meet up for dinner. Due to our busy times serving National Service, we hardly have time meeting each other for dinner. But time past fast i'm already serving the army for 6 months, jer nearing 2 months, darren nearing 2 months also. While iggy enjoying life because he went to defer his national service and now studying at clementi ite higher nitec in Banking course.

We went to Sakura @ Orchard for a buffet dinner. The dinner was great we all have loads of topic to talk about on our vocation in the army while poor iggy need to sit there and listen to us without understanding what are we talkiong about. We finish our dinner at about 10.00 pm and we headed down to paragon to walk around. But they are about to close up and call it a day. So we went to the basement 7 eleven to get some drinks and we sat outside paragon till about 11.30pm before we went our separate ways. All of us were tired and happy that we still kept in contact with each other. We will still plan more outings every week!

All i want is you!

At that very very moment '' I want you''

Dance of the Dragon.

I went to watch this show today along because gerald was too tired to go out! . Anyway the show as nice lot's of ball room dancing which i love the most. It's all about dream and love '' Dare to Dream and Dare to Love'' I rate this show:

Harold And Kumar Escape From Guantanamo Bay

This is one of the most funniest show i ever watch. I was laughing through out the whole show. If anyone out there want to catch this show you better watch Harold And Kumar Escape from White Castle, both the shows are link together. IT'S M18 some sexual scenes.

Coffee n Tea Leafs

On friday night the clock was about to strike 10 pm when i recieve a call from gerald. Then he link me up with yewhui and both of them came out with a very good idea of going to meet up at starbucks for coffee. I was very tired at the time because i just came home from dinner with my parents. Come to think because gerald just finish his confinement and i haven't met him for 2 weeks, so i decided to hook up with them a starbucks. Yewhui asked amanda along for coffee too!. It's a very long time since we 4 sat down to have coffee and chat. For the past few hours we chat none stop all about life in army because gerald and me are serving the national service now. We chat till about 1pm because all of us were tired. It was fun hope we got more outings like this. Amanda also took a picture of me and gerald together!

STARBUCKS is Love!

Outside starbucks credit amanda =)

The Long lasting friendship.

After all the ups and downs the test for my friendship still last. Years have past many things changes but one thing that will always remain the same way that's friendship.

Friendship comes and Friendships go

Like wave upon the sand

Like day and night

Like birds in flight

Like snowflakes when they land

But you and i are something else

Our friendship's here to stay

Like weeds and rocks and dirty socks

It never goes away.

The Best of the Best Iggy and Gerald.

7 years of friendship me and Gerald.

9 years of Friendship.